Some of you may have guessed it from my screen name: I’m being kept chaste by my lovely keyholder. That of course requires a chastity device (a modified cage in my case) and the keys. I think there are plenty of guides on which cage or belt is the best, how to select one and the like. However something I rarely see is some advice on the second crucial factor in chastity: the keys. Or better, how to handle the keys and access to them. Maybe that is because it’s not good for horny pics 😜.
As I and my keyholder don’t live together, but chastity still requires access from time to time (e.g. for cleaning, visits to the doctor’s, etc.) some means to remote-control access to the keys is needed. So I decided to describe how we handle that.
The Master Lock box
For most of the time, we simply use the Master Lock box. It’s a bluetooth-controlled lock box. The great thing about this box is that I can fully give up control and the keyholder decides when I have access to the keys. Whenever I need access, for example for the weekly deep cleaning, physical therapy or doctor’s visits, he enables my account for a specified timeframe. When I then open the box by pressing the button on the box with my phone in proximity, the box opens and the keyholder gets a notification.
Unfortunately there’s no notification when the box is closed again. So I always send a short video with me turning the lock in the cage, putting the key in the box and then closing the box. For verification I put my smart watch next to the box. This will allow the keyholder to verify that the keys are back in the box again at a given time. (Unfortunately I can’t share an example video for “but think of the children”-reasons)
The app to control the box is not perfect and sometimes requires setting the opening times more than once. But it’s usable.
The lockbox method is perfect for when I’m in my home town and know that I won’t need access to the keys on short notice. However when traveling, the box is way to heavy (over 1kg). We have other means to control the keys then. But that will be covered in part 2.