Category: Chastity

Locks, Keys & Chastity (part 2)

As I wrote in part 1, the Master Lock lockbox is quite heavy with more than a kilogram. Too heavy for carrying it when I’m traveling or even for cases where I’m not at home when locking or unlocking. So we have come up with another method for these cases.

Enter: The lockbox. It’s a small, 3D-printed box with a lid that slides in. It is just large enough to contain the two keys for the collar and the chastity cage. We basically do the same procedure as with the Master lock box, just that I have to apply a stick-on seal to the lid. So my lovely keyholder gets a video of locking the cage, putting the keys in the box, and applying the seal. It’s quite fiddly to hold the phone in one hand and apply the seal with the other, but I usually manage.

The seals we use are uniquely numbered and can not (easily) be removed without leaving traces. These are pretty similar to the ones you see all over your electronics. Without endorsing them, we use these ones.

Whenever I need to unlock (and of course am allowed to), I take a picture of the still sealed box with the uniquely numbered seal and my smartwatch in the picture. Then I send this picture to the keyholder to prove that it’s a current photo. He then can verify that the box was still sealed at the time.

Once that is done, I can break the seal and unlock.

As you can see in the picture on the left, the seal shows “void” when peeled off the box.

And now for a key component in all that: The little lock box.

It’s a quick custom design I made to fit both of the keys. You can find it over on printables.com or thingiverse.com. Initially, we used a way larger box, but it turned out very clunky. So I designed one that’s sufficiently large for our needs, but small enough to keep it in the pocket.
And a final word on printing it. I generally prefer PETG over PLA for many things. However the seal does not stick very well to PETG, so I really recommend printing with PLA or some other material where the seal sticks.

Let me know how you handle keys, what you use to store them or if you printed one of the boxes here.

Locks, Keys & Chastity (part 1)

Some of you may have guessed it from my screen name: I’m being kept chaste by my lovely keyholder. That of course requires a chastity device (a modified cage in my case) and the keys. I think there are plenty of guides on which cage or belt is the best, how to select one and the like. However something I rarely see is some advice on the second crucial factor in chastity: the keys. Or better, how to handle the keys and access to them. Maybe that is because it’s not good for horny pics 😜.

As I and my keyholder don’t live together, but chastity still requires access from time to time (e.g. for cleaning, visits to the doctor’s, etc.) some means to remote-control access to the keys is needed. So I decided to describe how we handle that.

The Master Lock box

For most of the time, we simply use the Master Lock box. It’s a bluetooth-controlled lock box. The great thing about this box is that I can fully give up control and the keyholder decides when I have access to the keys. Whenever I need access, for example for the weekly deep cleaning, physical therapy or doctor’s visits, he enables my account for a specified timeframe. When I then open the box by pressing the button on the box with my phone in proximity, the box opens and the keyholder gets a notification.

Master lock box

Unfortunately there’s no notification when the box is closed again. So I always send a short video with me turning the lock in the cage, putting the key in the box and then closing the box. For verification I put my smart watch next to the box. This will allow the keyholder to verify that the keys are back in the box again at a given time. (Unfortunately I can’t share an example video for “but think of the children”-reasons)

The app to control the box is not perfect and sometimes requires setting the opening times more than once. But it’s usable.

The lockbox method is perfect for when I’m in my home town and know that I won’t need access to the keys on short notice. However when traveling, the box is way to heavy (over 1kg). We have other means to control the keys then. But that will be covered in part 2.